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I met a nice guy now what

Boundaries are a pretty hard thing to get a handle on for both men and women so I expect most people to struggle with them. Boundaries are refraining from talking all day, every day before we know each other. I have a history of codependency. To lay the groundwork to understand why this new guy is so shocking to me, I have to admit that my historical experience with relationships is riddled with codependency. It takes a really long time to break an ingrained habit.

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He keeps his word even when you have doubts. Something as simple as him following through makes you uncomfortably happy. Every text is answered. Every plan happens. Because he wants you as much as you want him. But then you realize this is how relationships are supposed to be. He respects who you are as a person, the things you are interested in and constantly is there to show you he cares.

You realize how one person can change your life. You find yourself talking about him more, smiling more. And not everyone will hurt you. Then he sees you at your worst and stays.

Maybe you breakdown. Maybe every wall comes crumbling down. But here he is seeing this side to you that is raw and honest. But he comforts you appreciating that fact you let him in that close. Then he talks about a future healing you of the past. Kirsten is the author of But Before You Leave , a book of poetry about the experiences we struggle to put into words.

Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. You may unsubscribe at any time. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. And expect the worst but he surprises you. But even with this new treatment, there are moments you find yourself pulling away.

He forgives you because have no reason to apologize. Instead, he fights for you. And honest. When you are used to someone lying, brutal honesty and someone this real is different. And respects you. And loves you for it. Kirsten Corley Kirsten is the author of But Before You Leave , a book of poetry about the experiences we struggle to put into words. Dating Healing Love Relationships. More From Thought Catalog.

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He keeps his word even when you have doubts. Something as simple as him following through makes you uncomfortably happy. Every text is answered.

Ah, the "nice guy". You know, the one was says you're "not like other girls" and pretends to be so caring and chill but then immediately goes into bellend mode when you reject him. Admittedly, some guys are quite nice.

And it takes everything in you to not walk away. And even when you walk away, you find yourself going back so many times because you miss him. You miss the adrenaline rush of high intense emotions. From love to screaming to making up.

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